Numerology/Astrology for 11/16/16
11/16/16 is the number 9. Completion looks very personal right now. Completion is not external because conditions exist where the external has taken a track all its own and there are many out there that have given it life. It is time to be complete with that truth but the internal completion is going to look a lot more complex than it ever has before.
It is time to let people, situations, and circumstances go that no longer serve who you are becoming. The level of stress in each person’s life is so high that those people who add complication and more tension are not really what anyone is going to want to choose right now. Many have been feeling that need to shift in drastic ways already but now it is about figuring out how to find your own new cosmic center that allows for an appropriate level of intuition to filter in, minus the rhetoric and slant that has been so toxic for so many. The completion is with the part of you that feels as if it needs to fix something or change someone’s mind.
At this point it should be clear that everyone is set in a position and they are not going to change readily in the near future. So stop, take a break, and reclaim you first. Let circumstances in life show the reality or non-reality in which you are living. That is all you can do. But for yourself on the inside, there is a great deal of work that has needed attention for a while and now it is calling you to dive deep and discover what you have been putting off for so long.
Within each of us are some very congested closets that are holding many old attachments that need to be let go of. It is time. You know it. Take a break from being caught in all the external upset and deal with the internal work that has piled up. You will be happier in the end because you will have cleared out some space and you will finally let go of so much in your past that has been slowing you down because you have been dragging it along and unwilling to drop it.
Think of this time like you are a pioneer crossing the plains trying to get somewhere in the distance. You started out with a full covered wagon but within a short period of time you realize that you will not make it if you carry a lot of personal things that are not essential. Slowly you keep dropping things along the way until you are down to the bare essentials and that is what you need to do right now.
You cannot carry anyone or anything extra right now. You cannot take on the responsibility of others feelings or projections. You cannot carry it. It will break you and you know it. You have to simplify all the way down and find out that even without all that stuff (some that belonged to you and some that belonged to others) you are perfect, wonderful, and a beautiful person.
What others think of you is none of your business. They are on their own path and you are on yours. Right now because of circumstances no one can carry anyone else. Oh, I know they want you to and I know that you have in the past and some are habituated to you doing all their work for them.
But have you noticed that your suggestions are now getting a backlash of sorts. You are either completely wrong and they want to blame you for not perfectly fixing their karmic situation or you are not doing enough for them. People are in such pain right now that they want and need to blame someone or something for what they are feeling.
If you are doing that to others, stop and notice that you put some things into motion and then asked others for help after you had already started a pattern and sequence in motion. You did that because of your own unhappiness and you fell into habituated patterns of dysfunctional nurturing to feel better. That is not always a bad thing but in this time and astrological sequence it will not work. You are responsible for creating a particular pattern that you then wanted others to help with and add to. But that covered wagon was already careening down the hill and it has gained momentum and speed. No one can stop this pattern or series of lessons that was karmically started for you to learn from. So stop blaming others for failing when it was not their construction in the first place.
While the Gemini Moon until 7:58 PM EST emphasizes objective communication and thinking, a Mercury-Uranus challenge can point to hastiness drawing conclusions or making decisions today. You may have some flashes of insight but tend to be scatterbrained or inattentive to practical details. You might have a hard time settling down and allowing your mind to be calm and objective. Expect people to be short tempered and rebelliousness now. You can use this energy creatively but you simply need to take the time to bring everything down to earth. Tonight, a Mars-Chiron semi-square can point to increased sensitivity to what you might feel are slights or blows to the ego. There can be difficulties expressing your anger or desires in a direct manner. But direct is probably not the best way right now. Be calm, be kind, and be clear.
“When our intimate agreements are working our lives flow smoothly – we have more energy, are more passionate, and far more creative.”
When our relationships are not working,
it adds stress to our life.
Then we have less energy to work with
and we waste that essential energy
trying to put out fires that others have started.
I am sure I am not the only one feeling like I am on an emotional roller coaster. I have good days and days where the quest for the meaning of life dwindles down to a place that is unfamiliar to me. Learning to stay in a calm place of acceptance and trust at moments takes a level of compassion to myself that is unfamiliar because of its level of depth and requires a complete reworking of my internal states of consciousness. I am plumbing my own depths, as I know many of you are also. There is a major shift in the world that is so great that most of us will be working on this for a very long time. It is as if metal is being put back into the fires and completely being melted and reforged into something that is yet unclear. Each of us is taking what we were and questioning the very foundation of that construct to see if it is what you want and need at this time. Where you have been and where you are going is going to require new tools and anchors to navigate. Take this time to center and regroup on a very deep level. All things are in need of a re-evaluation. This is a moment of great promise and potential. Such things require a great deal of consideration before you begin to construct that new you.