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When you try to take the power of the people away and crush their hope and spirit, and when the laws become enemies of freedom, that is when those in power are about to lose everything.
The most dangerous people are those with nothing to lose and those that know where the problem lies.
~Suzanne Wagner~
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Some think that “loving yourself” is about not looking carefully (with a critical eye) at your own actions, choices, thoughts, and patterns.
The process of unconditionally loving ourselves includes perspective, willingness to change, and accepting responsibility for our dysfunctional patterns.
My grandmother was a mentally ill person who could not see at all how her actions were calculated to blame others and to spew the internal hatred she carried inside … outwards to anyone and anything that did not go her way.
I see a world in which too many want to be unconditionally loved “Just as they are” without enough self-awareness that embraces active change and understanding of triggers and mechanisms.
Accountability is the key to transformative processes. Without it … souls will continue to wallow in patterns of dysfunction that will continue the patterns of karma that we all came to change, heal, and mature through.
I realize that first and foremost it is never about others changing. It is about me changing.
I recognize that some may not get certain levels of understanding in this life. We cannot get it until we are fully ready to get it. Understanding requires us to have enough clarity that we question our own actions. Then get to know the reasons why we do certain things. Once we know why, then we have to understand the triggers that get us caught up in the loops of dysfunctional and reactive choices. And then we have to have enough awareness to figure out another way and to make choices that help us learn more functional methods of interacting with others.
~Suzanne Wagner~
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